20 Questions That Will Change Your Life
By: Amanda Froelich,
You may be stuck in a dead-end job or in a hopeless relationship, neither serving your needs and have you at your wits end. In this scenario, there’s only one thing to do: accept that something needs to change.
The fact is, if something or someone does not serve your best interest and inhibits your positive personal growth, it is time to engage in new company or adopt new habits. Because you cannot control anyone but yourself, the following 20 questions are meant to inspire intrinsic reflection for personal breakthrough.
You have the power to change your life by humbly accepting your current state and grasping where you’d like to grow; life is limitless, refuse to let conditioned programming inhibit your ability to shine. .
1. What are you pretending not to know?
All possibilities open up when we stop deceiving ourselves.
All possibilities open up when we stop deceiving ourselves.
2. Why don’t you do the things you know you should be doing?
Life isn’t figuring out what to do. The real challenge is (not so) simply doing the things we know we should be doing.
Life isn’t figuring out what to do. The real challenge is (not so) simply doing the things we know we should be doing.
3. What are your values and are you being true to them?
When we don’t act true to our values, dissonance arises.
When we don’t act true to our values, dissonance arises.
4. What don’t you know, that you don’t know?
It’s always the obstacles we don’t see coming that are the biggest challenges in life. Get in the habit of asking people that have been there and done it for guidance.
It’s always the obstacles we don’t see coming that are the biggest challenges in life. Get in the habit of asking people that have been there and done it for guidance.
5. In what way are you being perceived that you’re not aware of?
Perception is reality. Make sure you understand how people really think about you.
Perception is reality. Make sure you understand how people really think about you.
6. Do your ‘shoulds’ get in the way of your happiness?
The desires of the ego are often in conflict with the emotions of the heart. You’ll always have what you want, if you want what you have.
The desires of the ego are often in conflict with the emotions of the heart. You’ll always have what you want, if you want what you have.
7. What did I learn today? Who did I love? What made me laugh?
The meaningful exchanges of life – was your day memorable?
The meaningful exchanges of life – was your day memorable?
8. How would you feel if you achieved all of your life’s goals today? How can you feel that along the way?
It’s misguided perception that success enhances one’s value or worth; do you feel once you get ‘there’ you’ll finally be worth it? While delayed gratification is a powerful habit of highly successful people, we’re happier striving for our goals when we let ourselves feel that which we want to feel when our outcome is achieved.
It’s misguided perception that success enhances one’s value or worth; do you feel once you get ‘there’ you’ll finally be worth it? While delayed gratification is a powerful habit of highly successful people, we’re happier striving for our goals when we let ourselves feel that which we want to feel when our outcome is achieved.
9. If you had no fear, what would you do?
Imagine your 90-year-old self looking back on your life. What risks would you wish you would have taken?
Imagine your 90-year-old self looking back on your life. What risks would you wish you would have taken?
10. If you were dying, would you worry about this?
We so easily lose perspective on what takes up our energy and focus. We all die, plain and simple; sometimes we need to remind ourselves of this to enjoy living. (Tip: Read “Tuesdays with Morrie”)
We so easily lose perspective on what takes up our energy and focus. We all die, plain and simple; sometimes we need to remind ourselves of this to enjoy living. (Tip: Read “Tuesdays with Morrie”)
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